.Alan Y.
Yelp
When I decided to propose to my girlfriend, I knew that I wanted to find a ring that was as unique as she. I suppose that I'm a romantic at heart, and I wanted to surprise her with both the proposal and the ring, so I did not elicit any suggestions as I wanted to give no hints. There were many options, but I narrowed down my jewelers of choice to Lang Antiques and Dianne's New and Old Estates.
I visited Lang's website which shows the store's entire live inventory. The rings here are primarily estate pieces, many dating to the Edwardian Era (1901-1919) or older. There are also a very few new and modern rings, but the best pieces here are all Edwardian or Art Deco rings. The detail and style achieved by the craftsmen of those long gone times is not easily replicated. The truth is that the engagement rings at Lang Antiques make the wares at Shreve & Company or Tiffany & Company look like mass produced baubles that fell off of an assembly line. If you love labels or want something shiny and new, but without spirit, then feel free to visit one of those other establishments. Maybe pick up a soda and hotdog while you snatch up a ring at Costco?
Lang is easily walkable from the Montgomery BART if you choose to eschew San Francisco parking. The store is fairly tiny, accommodating no more than four couples comfortably, but it is packed with timeless jewelry from wall to wall. Once inside, I knew that visiting any other jeweler would be unnecessary.
There are amazing rings here for as little as $700, and for over $150000. Let's just say that I found a comfortable range somewhere in the middle. Each ring that I looked at was unique and one-of-a-kind. Julie, a GIA trained salesperson, helped me find a group of rings that were within my price range and were the right look for what I thought my girlfriend would love. She gave me a refresher course on diamond basics, on vintage rings, and also advised that there is a 3% cash discount for all purchases, which would otherwise be paid as merchant fees to their credit card vendors. As such, I made an appointment to return the following day.
After a sizeable bank withdrawal (requiring Federal disclosure reporting), I returned to Lang where Angela helped me with my final purchase. Luckily, the sales people here pool their commissions, so there is no undue, cutthroat pressure from anyone at Lang.
It should be noted that not all of the rings here are able to be GIA certified as this type of certification requires a loose diamond, and removing vintage diamonds from their existing rings could often cause irreparable damage. That being said, many of the rings here do have a GIA cert, if such a thing offers you any peace of mind.
In the end, I found a ring with a conflict-free, one hundred year old diamond that had been salvaged from a ring unsuitable for resale, and mounted into a new ring, handcrafted in the Edwardian style. Though Lang may not be the right jeweler for everyone, it was the right choice for me (us).
And she said yes!